12 Ways Maine Coons Secretly Show You Love (Most Owners Miss #7!)

Maine Coons are often called “dogs of the cat world” for a reason. These gentle giants aren’t just affectionate; they bond deeply with their humans and express love in unique ways.

While many cats are subtle, Maine Coons are both vocal and physical, often leaving first-time owners wondering: “Is this cat trying to talk to me?”

But Maine Coons don’t show love the way humans expect. Their affection is woven into quirky habits: chirps, tail flicks, playful “gifts,” and even choosing to sleep on your laptop while you work.

The more you understand these signals, the stronger your bond becomes.

How Maine Coon Cats Show Love

Here are 12 clear signs your Maine Coon loves you, plus tips on how to respond so your big, fluffy companion feels just as cherished.

1. The Slow Blink (The “Maine Coon Kiss”)

When your Maine Coon looks at you and slowly closes their eyes before opening them again, it’s the ultimate trust gesture.

Since Maine Coons are naturally large and imposing, they use slow blinks to show vulnerability and peace.

Tip: Return the blink as it tells your cat you love them too!

2. Head Butts And Cheek Rubs

Maine Coons have strong scent glands in their cheeks. When they push their massive heads against your hand or leg, they’re marking you with their scent – a way of saying, “You belong to me”. 

With their size, these head butts can feel more like a nudge, but they’re pure affection.

3. Following You from Room To Room

Unlike aloof breeds, Maine Coons are notorious for shadowing their humans.

If you notice your cat padding after you while you cook, clean, or even use the bathroom, it’s not a coincidence. They simply want to be near their favorite person.

4. Grooming You (Or Your Hair!)

Maine Coons groom their humans just as they would a fellow cat. If they lick your hand, face, or hair, they see you as part of their family.

Owners often joke about their Maine Coons trying to “style” their hair – it’s a sure sign of love.

5. Rolling Over And Showing The Belly

Because of their size, Maine Coons look extra dramatic when they flop over, exposing their tufted bellies. This vulnerable pose signals deep trust.

But don’t assume it’s always an invitation to rub their bellies – sometimes it’s just their way of saying, “I feel safe around you.”

6. Tail Language Unique To Maine Coons

Maine Coon tails are legendary – long, bushy, and highly expressive. Signs of love include:

• A quivering tail when you walk in the room.
• Wrapping their tail around your arm or leg like a fluffy hug.
• Holding their tail high and slightly curved, showing confidence and affection.

7. Bringing You “Gifts”

Maine Coons are natural hunters. Many will proudly bring you toys, feathers, or even the occasional outdoor catch. It’s their way of providing for you and sharing their success.

Even if the gift is less than pleasant, it’s meant as a sign of respect and love.

8. Chirps, Trills, And Conversations

Maine Coons are famously vocal, but not in the loud “yowling” way some breeds are. Instead, they use chirps, trills, and soft meows as a form of conversation.

If your cat chirps at you when you enter the room, it’s their version of “Hi, I missed you!”

9. Sleeping Beside (Or On) You

All cats feel vulnerable when asleep. For a Maine Coon to sprawl across your lap, bed, or even your keyboard while you work means they feel completely safe with you.

Because of their size, these cuddle sessions can feel like having a furry weighted blanket – a true gesture of trust.

10. Gentle “Love Bites”

Maine Coons may softly nibble your fingers or clothes during play or petting. These controlled, gentle bites aren’t aggression; they’re affection mixed with playfulness.

Think of it as their version of a cat kiss.

11. Purring With Eye Contact

While all cats purr, Maine Coon purrs are famously deep and resonant, sometimes loud enough to fill a room.

If they purr while gazing at you, especially during petting, it’s a sign of both comfort and love.

12. Leading You To Their Territory

Maine Coons often act like tour guides. If your cat runs ahead and beckons you toward their favorite window perch, food bowl, or toy stash, it’s because they want to share their world with you.

Inviting you into their space is a huge compliment.

How To Strengthen The Bond

• Reciprocate affection: Return slow blinks, talk back when they chirp, and respect their boundaries.
• Engage in play: Maine Coons thrive on interactive games like fetch or wand toys, which mimic hunting.
• Give them space, but be present: They love companionship, but on their own terms.
• Reward affection: When your Maine Coon chooses closeness, offer treats, gentle petting, or praise.

The more you learn to “read” your Maine Coon’s signals, the more you’ll notice just how often they’re declaring their love in their own fluffy, giant way.