10 Reasons Why Your Maine Coon Cat Bites You

It is no laughing matter when a Maine Coon starts biting you!

So make sure you keep reading to discover why your Maine Coon cat bites you, and let’s get this undesirable Maine Coon cat behavior resolved.

Maine Coon cats are known for their gentle, docile, affectionate temperament. However, there are ten reasons why a Maine Coon may start to bite their owner: playing, teething, defending themselves, in pain, wanting attention, enjoyment, social biting, over-petting, overstimulated, or acts of dominance.

Whilst biting may occur during play, a cat’s razor-sharp teeth will definitely hurt you if they puncture your skin. Therefore, the sooner an owner acts to resolve the issue, the better.

Allowing a Maine Coon to act aggressively towards you is a dangerous path to tread, therefore you must quickly establish why your Maine Coon cat bites you.

To avoid or limit the chances of this situation ever occurring again it is vital that cat owners set the rules from the beginning. Here’s how…

Why Your Maine Coon Cat Bites You

There are a variety of reasons that cause a Maine Coon cat to start biting their owner.

It is important therefore that owners quickly establish the root cause, to prevent instances of biting from occurring.

The table below shows the top 10 reasons why your Maine Coon cat bites you:

PlayingSome cats bite owners
whilst playing
TeethingMaine Coon kittens bite
whilst teething
DefensiveMaine Coons bite when
In PainThe cat may bite you if
you touch a painful area
of their body
Wants AttentionMaine Coon is after some
EnjoymentThe cat simply enjoys
Social BitingCats give humans
‘love bites’ as a warning
PettingToo much stroking leads
to overstimulation
DominanceTrying to be dominant
Kitten BitingNatural stage all kittens
go through
Why Your Maine Coon Cat Bites You

Owners should look through the details in the table above, and try to identify if any of these root causes are causing their Maine Coon to bite them.

If any of the issues sound familiar, take a look at the more detailed explanations below.

1. Playing

Playtime is a very stimulating activity for a cat, and can quickly cause a Maine Coon to become overstimulated, often resulting in them biting their owner.

If this scenario sounds familiar, owners should immediately cease playing and firmly say “no”.

Whilst an overstimulated cat is likely to already be happy to stop playing, an owner’s immediate stop and a firm command will teach the cat that biting has a negative reaction from its owner.

By contrast, it is also important that owners praise their cats when they play gently.

Should biting continue, I’ve found these chewable fish from Amazon to be extremely effective in stopping our overstimulated Maine Coon biting me. 

An added bonus of this chewable catnip toy is that it also helps to clean your Maine Coons teeth.

The pack also includes a cat finger toothbrush and chew sticks. If you’re not sure why this is important, read my article on Maine Coon teeth when you get a chance.

Owners should encourage their cat to chew on the cat toy, rather than their hand!

Another favorite ‘go-to’ cat toy for me, to calm any Maine Coon biting, are these cute chewable mice on Amazon.

They really cheap and designed to allow your cat to chew on.

The netting around the outside of the toy also helps remove plaque and tartar buildup on your Maine Coons teeth. Bonus!

It has always seemed somewhat counterintuitive to me, that an animal will bite their owner whilst they are playing with them.

For starters, why does a cat think that biting its owner will encourage them to continue playing, or even want to play games on another occasion?

They are quite literally biting the hand that feeds them!

The fact of the matter though, is that most cats do not realize they are hurting their owners when they bite.

Instead, they see biting as an acceptable part of the play process, that commonly occurs when they play with another cat.

Biting is also a sign of the Maine Coons natural hunting instincts.

One useful characteristic of the Maine Coon cat breed is that they are very intelligent and trainable.

Therefore, if you are keen to avoid biting during future play sessions you should start by limiting playtime to smaller bursts of time to prevent overstimulation from occurring.

Owners should also train their Maine Coon whilst they are still young, that biting is not a nice, nor acceptable occurrence by firmly stating “no” and then stopping playtime.

Please Note:

If you have adopted an adult male Maine Coon that hasn’t been trained to stop biting, you will find it takes far longer to stop the cat biting you.

This is mainly because adult male Maine Coons are well known for being more stubborn in their nature, than their female counterparts!

Older Maine Coon cats are also harder to train than kittens who can have their behavior molded.

Why your Maine Coon cat bites you
Cats bite each other whilst they play

2. Teething

Maine Coon kittens will often bite their owners whilst they are teething, to help limit the discomfort in their mouths whilst new teeth push through their gums, into their mouths.

Therefore, if you notice your kitten is chewing on your fingers, or the surrounding furniture, etc, they are likely to be going through the teething process.

Teething tends to begin when the kitten is roughly 2 weeks old, not finishing until approximately 6 weeks when most of your kitten’s baby’s teeth will have grown through.

Whilst this stage of the process happens before owners collect their kitten from a breeder, it is not the end of the matter.

Instead, teething is a valid reason for explaining why your Maine Coon cat bites you since it is likely to continue on and off until your kitten reaches 6 months of age.

At 6 months, your Maine Coon will likely have lost all their ‘baby’ teeth and replaced them with ‘adult teeth’.

Owners who suspect their Maine Coon kitten is teething should give them plenty of these cat-chewable toys to gnaw on (link to Amazon).

These toys will not only soothe the kittens teething discomfort but also help keep their new teeth clean and healthy.

Why your Maine Coon cat bites you
Teething kittens will often bite owners

Learn more about Maine Coon teeth in our ultimate cat dental health guide.

3. Defensive

All animals have a natural instinct to survive. Therefore, in scenarios whereby they feel threatened, a primitive reflex known as ‘fight or flight’ will kick in.

A physiological reaction, such as an acute stress response, or hyperarousal will then occur within the cat’s body in response to the perceived threat (source 1).

So, how does this explain why your Maine Coon cat bites you?

Basically, your Maine Coon is biting you because they are feeling threatened by your behavior or actions.

In situations such as this, it is vital that owners take a step backward, and assess which of their actions caused their Maine Coon cat to feel threatened.

If an owner doesn’t want to be bitten again, they should take note of their own behavior, and not do the same thing again.

Here are some possible reasons why your Maine Coon cat might feel threatened:

  • The owner acted aggressively toward them
  • Maine Coon was smacked
  • Someone accidentally stood on the Maine Coons huge tail
  • Cat is being unkindly poked, or their tail pulled
  • The cat is in physical pain. The owner may have accidentally touched an area on the cat’s body, where the cat feels a level of discomfort.

For those of you who are not sure whether your Maine Coon is acting aggressively towards you, or not, look carefully at your cat’s body language.

Angry cats place their weight on their hind legs (back legs) in preparation for pouncing on you.

The cat’s ears will also be pointing backward, and it is more than likely that your Maine Coon will be hissing loudly at you.

Why your Maine Coon cat bites you
Physically defensive cat

4. In Pain

Whilst the Maine Coon cat is known for being extremely sociable, often following its owners all around the home (for more on this subject click here), this cat breed is still extremely independent.

Maine Coon cats are very curious and intelligent, so will happily play with their cat toys on their own, or chase a random flying leaf around the garden or yard.

Accidents happen though, and it is possible that your Maine Coon hurts themselves whilst playing, etc.

A Maine Coon that is in pain will likely lash out, or bite its owner if they try to stroke them, or if an owner accidentally touches the part of the cat’s body that hurts.

Therefore, if your usually calm, laidback, and gentle Maine Coon cat starts biting you, watch them carefully over the next few hours.

Look to see if they have hurt themselves i.e. is the cat limping, or flinching?

In situations where an owner suspects there is an issue, make sure you seek immediate veterinary professional assistance.

The vet will be able to carefully check your Maine Coon over, for signs of pain.

In some cases, a Maine Coon might be experiencing pain due to an underlying health issue that has not yet been identified.

Here is a list of the top 7 health issues that Maine Coon cats are prone to develop.

It is possible that your Maine Coon bite is a result of pain and discomfort from one of these health issues.

Therefore, it is wise to ask a vet to rule out these possible issues, as they could explain why your Maine Coon cat bites you.

5. Wants Attention

One of the most common reasons why your Maine Coon cat bites you is because they want attention.

Since they cannot talk (well, only in gentle chirps and trills as explained in (this article of mine), a Maine Coon might try to gain your attention by biting your hand or leg.

Maine Coons that bite their owners tend to unknowingly put themselves in a ‘catch-22’ situation.

Whilst they might be trying to signal that they would like attention, biting an owner usually results in a negative exchange with the owner.

Ironically, biting then stops the owner from giving the cat the attention they seek!

If your Maine Coon bites you to get attention, firmly say ‘no’ and then give them a chewable cat toy like this one from Amazon, to bite on.

Your cat will quickly learn that biting does not get its owner’s attention and will cease biting you.

Maine Coons are highly trainable felines, therefore it is vital that owners remain consistent in the message they give their cats.

Why your Maine Coon cat bites you
Kitten Chewing

6. Enjoyment

Some Maine Coons will bite or chew on their owner’s fingers, simply because they enjoy doing it.

Whilst an owner might consider this behavior to be aggressive, the kitten or cat probably actually doesn’t realize they are harming or hurting you.

Take a look at your cat’s behavior and consider if this is why your Maine Coon cat bites you.

Owners wishing to stop their Maine Coon biting them will first need to alter their cat’s behavioral traits.

For instance, if a cat bite hurts you, then let out a small scream of ‘oww’, then remove your hand, firmly saying ‘no’ to your cat as you do so.

This will signal to your cat that you do not share their enjoyment of chewing or biting.

You should then try giving your Maine Coon one of these catnip chewable sticks to bite on instead.

These sticks mimic behavior you might see in an outdoor Maine Coon cat, and the added bonus is that these sticks promote better digestion, whilst the Silverline will help relieve cat stress.

These sticks are currently on offer at Amazon at the moment, so give them a go whilst they are cheap!

7. Social Biting

Social biting occurs when your Maine Coon gently bites and nibbles you, without causing bloodshed or pain.

If you notice this behavior in your cat you should give them a chewable cat toy to chew on, to distract them.

In scenarios where they ignore the toy you are trying to give them and continue gently biting your fingers or hand, your cat is giving you a Maine Coon love bite.

Maine Coon Cat Love Bites

A Maine Coon love bite is when your cat gently bites your hand, arm, etc whilst you are petting, or playing with them.

This is not usually an aggressive action by the cat, since love bites rarely involve puncturing the owner’s skin, resulting in bleeding.

When a Maine Coon gives you a love bite, they are warning you to stop what you are doing, since the cat is feeling overstimulated.

Understandably, this can leave even the most experienced of owners somewhat baffled.

Since only seconds ago their cat was happily playing with them (or being stroked), yet now seems to want to bite them!

If this situation occurs, owners should immediately cease whatever they were doing, since their cat has given them a clear warning.

Failure to heed this subtle red flag is done at an owner’s peril since the cat will most likely attack, which will hurt significantly more than a more gentle Maine Coon love bite!

Cat biting owners finger
Cat biting owner’s finger

8. Petting

Stroking your cat might be therapeutic and enjoyable for you, but it won’t necessarily always be the case for your cat.

In some cases, you might actually be annoying your cat, and missing the visual clues that they have had enough of being petted.

Over petting a cat causes them to become overstimulated, leading to hyperarousal whereby the cat bites or swats their owner because they want them to stop stroking them.

Owners should always be on the lookout for signs that their cats become overstimulated, for instance, the swish of their big bushy tail, or repeated chirps and trills.

If you think your cat is overstimulated, stop stroking them!

9. Dominance

Some Maine Coons will bite because they are trying to exert their dominance, whether it be over another cat or towards their owners.

Although dominance is less likely to be the reason why your Maine Coon cat bites you, you still need to rule this possibility out.

Therefore owners of male Maine Coon cats should be aware that this behavioral trait is more common in males of the species.

10. Kitten Biting

All Maine Coon kittens go through a biting stage, where they will explore the world around them using their natural instincts of biting, scratching, clawing, or pouncing.

Owners should not be concerned by this, since it is a completely natural phase of your Maine Coon kitten’s physical and mental development.

As with all phases, they do eventually pass.

Therefore, if you find your kitten is regularly biting you or destroying the furniture in your home, firmly say “no” and then give them a chewable cat toy to play with.


This article highlights the top 10 reasons why your Maine Coon cat bites you. As you can see, there are plenty of different triggers that might cause a cat to start biting you.

If you don’t think any of these key reasons account for your Maine Coon cat biting behavior, you might be dealing with Maine Coon aggression.

Aggression is an issue that must be dealt with immediately.

For those of you interested in learning more about how to identify and handle Maine Coon aggression, read this article.

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Hello! My name is Katrina Stewardson, and I’m a CRAZY CAT LADY! I've been in love with the Maine Coon cat breed ever since we welcomed an adorable male Maine Coon kitten into our home 10 years ago. We called him 'Pippin', but he also goes by the name ‘Pipsteroo’! Our enormous, kind-hearted cat genuinely thinks he's a dog and has convinced me that cats are Man's True Best Friend! UPDATE: We recently adopted two 4-year-old male Maine Coon cats. They are named Mika and Bali.

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