The Truth About Picking Up A Maine Coon – Why Many Owners Get It Wrong!

Many owners expect their giant feline to enjoy being scooped into their arms like a fluffy teddy bear. But here’s the truth: while some Maine Coons tolerate being picked up, and a few genuinely enjoy it, many dislike the sensation altogether.

Why? … Unlike dogs, cats never evolved to be carried. Being lifted takes away their ability to escape, and for a cat as large as a Maine Coon, an uncomfortable hold can make them feel insecure and stressed.

Understanding your cat’s perspective is key to building trust and avoiding stress.

Why Maine Coons Dislike Being Picked Up

Although Maine Coons are affectionate cats, there are several natural and practical reasons why many of them feel uncomfortable when lifted off the ground:

• Loss of control: Cats rely on having their paws firmly on the ground. When you lift them, they lose the ability to flee or defend themselves, which can make them feel vulnerable.
• Size and weight: Maine Coons are one of the largest domestic cat breeds. Their heavy, muscular bodies are difficult to support properly unless you use both arms. If they feel unsupported, they become anxious.
• Past experiences: A Maine Coon that has been mishandled in the past may associate being picked up with fear, discomfort, or even pain.
• Natural instinct: In the wild, cats are only carried by their mothers when they are kittens. As adults, being picked up is not part of their instinctive behavior.
• Overstimulation: Some cats simply dislike prolonged physical contact. Even if your Maine Coon enjoys being close, being held might feel overwhelming.

Signs They Do Not Want To Be Picked Up

Paying attention to your cat’s body language prevents stress and scratches.

Signs include:

• Flattened ears or a twitching tail before or during the lift.
• Wriggling, kicking, or tensing their body once held.
• Growling, hissing, or low rumbling sounds.
• Avoiding you after you try to pick them up.
• Wide, dilated pupils signaling fear or stress.

If you see these signs, it’s best to put your Maine Coon down calmly before they associate being picked up with fear.

Signs They May Enjoy Being Held

Not all Maine Coons dislike it. Some actually love cuddles – if you respect their comfort.

Positive signs include:

• Purring or leaning into your chest when picked up.
• Relaxed body posture with paws draped calmly.
• Nudging or headbutting you while in your arms.
• Staying in your arms instead of immediately trying to escape.

These behaviors show trust and comfort. However, even cats that enjoy being picked up may only want it in short bursts.

How To Pick Up A Maine Coon Safely

If your cat tolerates or enjoys being picked up, proper technique is essential for their safety and comfort:

• Support Their Weight: Use one arm under the chest and the other under the hindquarters. Never let their back legs dangle.
• Keep Them Close: Hold them against your chest so they feel secure and balanced.
• Stay Calm: Speak softly while lifting. Sudden movements or loud noises can spook them.
• Short Sessions: Only hold them for a short time. If they show signs of stress, gently put them down.
• Respect Their Limits: Never force your Maine Coon to be held. Forcing the issue can damage trust.

Training A Cat To Accept Being Picked Up

If your Maine Coon isn’t naturally fond of being held, you can build tolerance gradually:

• Start Small: Begin with gentle petting and lifting them just a few inches, then put them down quickly. Reward with a treat.
• Use Positive Reinforcement: Pair every lift with a reward – whether it’s a treat, chin rub, or gentle praise.
• Keep Sessions Short: Slowly increase the time they spend in your arms. End on a positive note before they become restless.
• Stay Consistent: Daily short sessions build trust more effectively than occasional attempts.
• Respect Personality: Some Maine Coons may never enjoy being held. Accepting this helps preserve your bond.

Final Thoughts

Maine Coons are loyal, affectionate companions, but that doesn’t automatically mean they want to be carried around like stuffed animals!

Some love it, some tolerate it, and others prefer to keep all four paws on the ground.

The key is learning to read your cat’s body language, respecting their preferences, and handling them properly when you do pick them up.

By approaching it with patience and care, you can strengthen your bond and ensure your Maine Coon feels safe, whether in your arms or beside you.