Can Cats Be Gay? (Unexpected Answer!)

Have you noticed your same-sex Maine Coons grooming, licking, and kissing each other, and wondered can cats be gay?

If you have, you are not alone! Many cat lovers have asked me this question, so I thought I would explain the facts in this article.

Cats cannot be gay in the same sense as humans due to psychological and emotional differences. Homosexual behavior in cats is a type of social interaction and play. Same-sex acts may indicate attraction or affection but do not necessarily prove a specific sexual orientation.

Are you ready to learn more about the surprising quirks and reasons behind same-sex behavior in cats?

If so, read on to better understand this fascinating aspect of frisky feline behavior!

Can Cats Be Gay?

The Maine Coon’s friendliness, sociability, and large size make it one of the most well-known and beloved cat breeds in the world.

These gentle giants are frequently called the “dogs of the cat world”, with loving personalities that make them exceptional family pets.

However, their popularity comes with a cost since a purebred Maine Coon kitten, on average, will cost you $1,000 to $2,000.

Their grooming requirements, expensive pet insurance, and high protein dietary needs will also run up their ongoing cost even further.

Now that you know a little more about this famous cat breed, let’s learn more about the subject, can cats be gay?

There’s no scientific evidence to suggest that Maine Coons have a distinct sexual orientation or display any kind of sexual preference.

Maine Coons, like other cats, do not have the same emotional or psychological experiences as humans when it comes to sexuality.

Whilst Maine Coons of the same sex may exhibit highly affectionate behaviors toward each other, this does not necessarily indicate romantic attraction.

In order to answer the query more thoroughly, let’s start by understanding why humans might think their cats are gay, by inspecting feline behavior that appears to be homosexual in nature.

Homosexual Behavior In Animals

Homosexual behavior in animals, including cats, takes many forms.

Notably, these same-sex behaviors in felines may simply be natural social interactions without any say in sexual orientation.

Here are some perceived homosexual tendencies in cats:

1. Same-Sex Mounting

Male-on-male mounting is one homosexual behavior in animals that is evident, yet rare in several species.

In this situation, a male cat climbs on top of another male cat, imitating a mating ritual.

This action could very well be a form of sexual expression for cats, though many view it as nonsexual, dominating behavior.

2. Play Fighting Or Wrestling

While most kitty playtime is innocent practice for hunting and fighting off challengers in the real world, it can become sexually charged.

Play fighting or wrestling may result in mounting and other sexual behaviors.

3. Grooming

Same-sex mutual grooming, licking fur, and exchanging scents are feline behaviors that may point toward sexual preference or attraction.

These acts help cats bond with one another and can signify care and affection between cats.

Studies Of Same Sex Behavior In Animals

Various studies of same-sex behavior in animals have been conducted on several species, including:

  • Primates
  • Birds
  • Domestic animals e.g. cats and dogs

The goal of these studies is to understand the frequency and nature of homosexual behavior in various species.

University Of California (2003)

Researchers at the University of California, Davis, published a 2003 study in the “Animal Behaviour” scientific journal.

A survey group of cat owners reported that mounting was the most common same-sex behavior among their cats.

The study found that both male and female domesticated cats were capable of homosexual behavior.

University Of London (2005)

In 2005, researchers at the University of London explored homosexual behavior in cats and published their findings in the “Animal Behaviour” journal.

They found that male cats were more likely to exhibit same-sex behavior patterns than female cats.

Further, they discovered that neutered males were less likely to partake in homosexual engagements such as male-on-male mounting.

A neutered male cat might still hump another male cat though, here’s why.

Journal Of Feline Medicine And Surgery (2008)

Another study published in 2008 in the “Journal of Feline Medicine and Surgery” found that testosterone was a huge indicator of sexuality in cats.

The level of hormones in cats significantly shapes their sexual nature and experiences, along with other factors such as:

  • Personality
  • Environment

The exact percentage of homosexuality in mammals is not known and is difficult to determine. because sexual orientation is a highly complex idea that is tough to quantify in animals.

However, some studies suggest same-sex behavior happens in a small percentage of mammals, typically less than 10%.

Keep in mind that homosexuality in animals can have different meanings and expressions compared to humans.

Are Neutered Cats Still Sexually Active?

Neutered cats raise another important question when it comes to sexual orientation and activity.

Since neutered male cats can no longer physically reproduce, why do they occasionally engage in mounting and humping?

These behaviors in neutered cats are likely indications of their excitement, nervousness, or frustration rather than sexual advances.

Sexual instinct and desire are not always completely lost after a male cat has been neutered.

The degree to which cats maintain sexual activity post-neutering depends on their:

  • Personality
  • Environment
  • Age

All things considered, cats generally continue exhibiting sexual behavior to some degree after undergoing this surgical procedure.

Can Male Cats Mate With Male Cats?

According to the biological definition of mating, male cats cannot mate with other male cats.

Mating involves sperm transferring from the male to the female, which results in fertilization and possible pregnancy.

Male cats simply do not possess the reproductive anatomy necessary to receive fertilization from another male, to then achieve pregnancy.

But can male cats mate with other male cats in a different context?

In short, yes, because same-sex mating behavior in cats is possible. However, such behavior is typically a form of dominance or play rather than a means of reproduction.

Male cats may express their attraction to other male cats by engaging in sexual behaviors that mimic mating.


In summary, the question of can cats be gay is as complex as it is fascinating.

Cats, including the Maine Coon breed, are known to occasionally exhibit same-sex behaviors such as mounting, play-fighting, or grooming.

However, these behaviors are not necessarily a smoking gun.

That said, studies on same-sex behavior in animals show that it does occur in a small percentage of mammals.

On this hot topic of whether or not cats can be gay, there is no doubt a need to continue studying our beloved feline friends to understand their same-sex behaviors and sexual orientations better.

Maine Coon Central

Hello! My name is Katrina Stewardson, and I’m a CRAZY CAT LADY! I've been in love with the Maine Coon cat breed ever since we welcomed an adorable male Maine Coon kitten into our home 10 years ago. We called him 'Pippin', but he also goes by the name ‘Pipsteroo’! Our enormous, kind-hearted cat genuinely thinks he's a dog and has convinced me that cats are Man's True Best Friend! UPDATE: We recently adopted two 4-year-old male Maine Coon cats. They are named Mika and Bali.

Recent Posts