How To Stop Maine Coon Separation Anxiety

Maine Coon separation anxiety can be very distressing for a cat. It is important that owners, therefore, know how to spot potential signs that it is happening, and know the best course of action.

Maine Coon cats suffer from separation anxiety if left alone for long periods of time. Signs of Maine Coon separation anxiety include overgrooming, loss of appetite, vomiting, biting, excessive meowing, destructive behavior, and litter box issues. These highly sociable cats are less prone to anxiety when sharing a household with other pets.

Owners of highly sociable Maine Coon cats should keep in mind that this mental health condition is particularly applicable to this breed.

These large cats don’t just love the attention of their human family, they actually need plenty of attention to ensure their sense of well-being does not suffer.

Maine Coon separation anxiety is not always outwardly visible, so owners must always be alert to the signals indicated below.

Avoiding separation anxiety in Maine Coon cats is particularly advisable since this ‘hidden’ mental health issue can negatively affect a cat’s physical health.

What Is Maine Coon Separation Anxiety?

Known for their loving, docile, and affectionate temperaments, the Maine Coon cat requires plenty of attention from their human family.

This need not always be in the form of playtime, though your Maine Coon will love these more durable cat toys.

Maine Coon cats have a love of life, like no other.

They are highly sociable felines, and therefore happiest when given plenty of attention and time to bond with their human family.

They tend to fare less well in environments whereby owners are away from home for extended periods of time though, since forming strong social bonds is important for their health and well-being.

Maine Coon separation anxiety can present itself in a number of different forms. Though some signs are not always outwardly visible, other behavioral changes are easier for an alert owner to identify.

Take a look at the table below, to learn the signs to watch out for, that may signal your cat is suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety:

Sign Of
Cats are fastidious cleaners,
but will over-groom (lick)
their fur when feeling
stressed and anxious
Loss of
Anxious cats often stop
eating or consuming far
less food than usual
VomitingUnexplained vomiting
and diarrhea whilst the
owner is away from the
home can signal to owners
that their cat is suffering
from Maine Coon
separation anxiety
BitingThis usually
non-aggressive cat breed
might start biting their
owners when stressed,
or anxious
Maine Coons cry when
left alone for long periods.
Cat dementia may worsen
this issue further
Usually, passive cats can
become destructive when
suffering from Maine
Coon separation anxiety.
Boredom and loneliness
often triggers these Maine
Coon behavioral issues
Litter Box
A cat defecating the home,
rather than using the litter
tray or digging up a patch
of ground outside might be
suffering from Maine Coon
separation anxiety
Signs Of Maine Coon Anxiety

So what do you do when your treasured gentle giant shows signs of Maine Coon separation anxiety?

If you suspect the recent behavioral changes within your feline to be linked to separation anxiety, it is important to tackle the various issues head-on.

To help you do this, we look in detail at the different signs and signals that you might have noticed.

1. Overgrooming

Maine Coons are very clean felines, so you can expect to see your cat continually licking their fur, starting from their face and then progressing down their bodies.

This behavior is completely normal, and not something that owners should be worried about.

It is time to take notice however when these fastidious cleaners start to over-groom themselves.

Overgrooming is basically when a cat licks their fur excessively, resulting in bald patches of skin. It can also be caused by a cat biting and pulling out their hair, although this is more usually linked to their attempts to remove matted fur.

Therefore, if you notice your cat has some visible bald patches of skin on their bodies, be alert to the fact that this might be the result of Maine Coon separation anxiety.

2. Loss Of Appetite

No one knows your Maine Coon cat’s appetite better than you do.

Therefore, if you notice that your usually hungry Maine Coon has stopped eating their food it is time to intervene.

3. Vomiting

Owners should be alert to unexplained cat vomiting since this is one of the less obvious clues signaling that your cat is suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety.

Vomiting will only occur whilst an owner is away from home.

Therefore, if you find cat vomit, and haven’t recently altered the food you are feeding your Maine Coon, watch out for other potential signs of separation anxiety. 

4. Biting

If your previously calm and gentle Maine Coon starts biting you, it is important to determine whether this is linked to Maine Coon separation anxiety, or not.

Take a look at your cat’s environment, and consider what aspects have recently changed.

Then review how much time you have been spending with your cat lately so that you can clarify if this negative cat behavior is an attention-seeking behavior, or not.

5. Excessive Meowing

A cat that meows excessively, as soon as you leave the home is likely suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety. 

If your cat is suffering from dementia, you might find that they increasingly meow during the night.

This is because they are losing their mental functionality, and can often no longer tell the difference between day and night anymore, so become confused and scared when they cannot find their owners.

Try leaving the bedroom door open when you go to sleep so that your cat seeks reassurance that you are nearby whilst you are sleeping.

For those of you interested in comparing sounds commonly associated with the Maine Coon cat, and those that you hear, check out my article Maine Coon Talking.

6. Destructive Behaviour

Maine Coons require a lot of social interaction. If left on their own for long periods of time though, they will likely exhibit signs of destructive behavior due to loneliness and boredom.

Owners should be alert to this issue, rather than automatically placing this negative behavior down to the cat just being naughty.

7. Litter Box Issues

Maine Coons are fastidious cleaners.

Therefore, if you find your usually clean cat has started to defecate your home with poop and urine, they might be experiencing Maine Coon separation anxiety.

Defecating is more likely to occur on clothes scented with the owner’s smell, or nearby the door where they left.

Before you jump to conclusions about your cat suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety though, make sure that you check their litter tray.

Do you own a suitably sized litter tray, like these ones?

How To Reduce Maine Coon Separation Anxiety

Maine Coons require high levels of human interaction and companionship.

They are best suited to individuals that spend large amounts of time at home, and are not on holiday every 5 minutes!

Although, if you do like to travel, keep in mind that some Maine Coons are pretty adaptable, and don’t mind being taken on a road trip!

Here are some great ways to limit or reduce Maine Coon separation anxiety.

Give each, or all of them a go, and hopefully, your cat’s stress and anxiety will naturally reduce in time. 

a. Time

Maine Coon separation anxiety is often caused by loneliness.

Owners should therefore make a concerted effort to increase the time they spend with their Maine Coon cat. This is important since it will help comfort and reassure the feline.

b. Grooming

If your cat’s fur is knotted, or matted, carefully brush their body with these Maine Coon grooming tools.

Brushing their bodies carefully is beneficial for your cat, since it will help to calm their anxious mind, whilst also de-matting their fur and making your feline happier.

Grooming is also a form of social bonding, which will reassert your cat’s perceived position within the family ‘pack’. 

Owners should avoid brushing the bald patches of their cat’s skin since these areas will likely be sore and sensitive.

c. Playtime

Maine Coon cats remain kitten-like and playful until late in their adult lives.

They love playing with their human family, so one easy way to ease their feelings of Maine Coon separation anxiety is to play with them for roughly 20-30 minutes every day.

If you are not sure how to play with your Maine Coon cat, why not try playing a game of fetch!

These cat toys are also very effective at encouraging a Maine Coon to play with you.

d. Cat Pheromones

When a cat is suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety, it is important that owners try to calm their anxious minds.

One way you can do this is by using cat pheromone plugins within your home.

These devices emit a scent that helps to calm a cat and can be plugged into all areas of the home that your Maine Coon occupies.

Whilst there are a variety of different cat pheromone plugins available on the market.

I found these plugins from Amazon to be very effective at keeping our cat calm during multiple house moves.

e. Alternate Food

If you notice that your Maine Coon has stopped eating, then first consider seriously whether it is likely that they are suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety, or not.

One simple test to help determine this is by alternating the food you are feeding your gentle giant since some Maine Coon cats just get bored of eating the same food, each day.

If you find the new food sparks your cat’s interest, they might just have been bored of their mealtime choices.

In cases where your cat still seems to not be interested in eating though, make sure that you seek professional veterinary advice to confirm if your cat has an underlying medical issue.

f. Veterinary Advice

One of the important steps in diagnosing Maine Coon separation anxiety is to make sure that you rule out other medical issues first.

Owners should therefore book an appointment with their local veterinary professional to rule out the possibility that their Maine Coon cat does not have an underlying health issue that they are not aware of.

For information on the most common Maine Coon health issues, take a look at my article ‘Top 7 Maine Coon Health Issues‘.

g. Buy A Second Cat!

If you suspect that your cat is suffering from Maine Coon separation anxiety, then consider purchasing a second cat for your home.

Additional cats do not need to be from the Maine Coon cat breed, though if you can afford a second Maine Coon then this would be ideal. 

Maine Coon cats are very friendly, and get on well with other household pets (see here for more details).

A second cat will help reduce Maine Coon separation anxiety, since the second cat effectively gives your Maine Coon non-stop companionship whilst you are away from home.

These cats can then play, and entertain each other.

Can You Take A Maine Coon On Holiday With You?

Every cat is different, however, Maine Coon cats have such docile and laidback temperaments, which makes them well suited to traveling.

Just make sure that you have a valid pet passport to hand.

How do I know this?

Well, my husband and I are not big travelers but did spend 6 weeks living in France a few years back.

We were trying to decide whether to move to France or not and didn’t want to leave our Maine Coon at home with a house sitter, so opted to take him on holiday with us!

Our Maine Coon has his own pet passport, and we found him to be an excellent traveler.

Everything went smoothly, as ‘Pippin’ immediately became great friends with the next-door neighbor’s cat within 24 hours of arriving!

The other cat wasn’t a Maine Coon, yet these cats played together all summer long.

It really couldn’t have been easier, but don’t make the mistake of assuming all cats will adapt as easily as this.

Here’s a cute picture of our 3-year-old Maine Coon spending his Summer with the neighbor’s cat:

Here’s some other travel advice for this particular cat breed.

If you are going to travel, I recommend the following items:

1. Extra Large Cat Carrier

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You obviously cannot put your treasured feline in your suitcase with you, therefore purchasing a large comfy cat carrier, like this one on Amazon, for them to travel in, is advisable.

This practical cat carrier is ideal for extra heavy and large cats, like Maine Coons.

It is both collapsable and made of soft fabric, so your precious Maine Coon won’t hurt themselves on the sides.

I also love that the mesh fabric offers the cat an unrestricted air supply, whilst the soft cozy cushion enables your cat to travel in greater comfort.

2. Food And Water Supply

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When you are traveling, it is important to consider how you will keep your Maine Coon cat well hydrated, especially if you are traveling through hot countries.

Dehydration is very dangerous for cats, so we purchased a few of these extra-large portable cat water containers from Amazon.

Their collapsible functionality makes them ideal for traveling, and they are really easy to keep clean.

We also used these travel bowls to feed our Maine Coon when we stopped at the service stations, too.

The extra-large size is important when feeding is concerned since your cat is unlikely to eat if its whiskers do not fit into the bowl.

3. Cat Harness

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One of the most important things to remember to take when traveling with a Maine Coon cat, is a LEASH!

Don’t go anywhere without one, since you will need to let your cat out to stretch its legs from time to time.

Many Maine Coon cats are the size of small dogs, so an extra-large cat harness like this is ideal since it caters to your cat’s larger than average sizing.

Amazon is currently selling it at a reduced price at moment too, so now is the best time to invest!


Owners should never ignore Maine Coon separation anxiety since it can negatively impact their cat’s health.

If you think that your cat is suffering, therefore, consider how you can adapt your cat’s current environment to cater to your Maine Coons emotional needs.

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Hello! My name is Katrina Stewardson, and I’m a CRAZY CAT LADY! I've been in love with the Maine Coon cat breed ever since we welcomed an adorable male Maine Coon kitten into our home 10 years ago. We called him 'Pippin', but he also goes by the name ‘Pipsteroo’! Our enormous, kind-hearted cat genuinely thinks he's a dog and has convinced me that cats are Man's True Best Friend! UPDATE: We recently adopted two 4-year-old male Maine Coon cats. They are named Mika and Bali.

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